Wow!!
It seems that I can say anything and be ignored! Nothing that I said in my previous post should be taken to mean that I have something against the institution of marriage. I've been married for 17 years.
I've just seen a lot of wreckage in that time. Your personal experience may well be different, and I do not want to minimize that. Just remember that marriage is very serious business.
Other than surrendering your life to God through His Son Jesus Christ, nothing can benefit your life more than a well chosen marriage. Most people, (men are especially guilty here ) however spend more time selecting a car to buy than someone to marry. The consequences are all around us.